The Lies My ‘Loverboy’ Told Me™

1. Triangulation: they play off other people against you. This could be in a work setting, a romantic context, with your children etc. It may be covert or overt. It may destabilise others’ relationships with you, or have you feel unsafe or unconfident. It may only be subtle but pay attention if you see it. 2. Disinterest in your inner world: they are not keen to gain a deep understanding of and respect what has you feel valued and what you value most.  3. No respect for your boundaries: if you set a boundary, they will walk over it overtly or they will covertly introduce issues so the boundary is compromised.  4. Limited or no understanding/acknowledgement of your feelings: your emotional world is not really included in the relationship. 5. Any issue in the relationship is your fault: they will even lie and rewrite history to ensure they can steadfastly lay any relationship problems at your feet. 6. They may be passive aggressive - as someone once said you can ‘sense the seet...

Link: https://youtu.be/V_EzFgJXBA8 Allie sits down with Ben Gillenwater, the “family IT guy” and cybersecurity expert, for an eye-opening conversation on protecting kids in the digital age. Ben breaks down the dangers of bottomless feeds, AI manipulations, grooming risks via online chats, and how platforms like YouTube and social media cause media addictions with high-stimulus shows. He reveals alarming stats on rising youth suicide rates correlating with social media usage and offers practical, no-nonsense advice. A must-listen for every mom and dad navigating screens, safety, and raising resilient kids in a tech-saturated world. Learn more about Ben Gillenwater here: ⁠ https://www.familyitguy.com ⁠ Buy Allie's book "Toxic Empathy: How Progressives Exploit Christian Compassion": ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.toxicempathy.com ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ #bengillenwater #socialmedia #onlinedangers #onlinesafety #alliebethstuckey #relatable #religion #news #po...

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I don’t know who needs to hear this tonight, but abusing women, manipulating them, and making them grovel and uncomfortable isn’t based. That’s a degenerates lifestyle. Whose daughter are you abusing? They are the weaker species, one designed by God to trust and be lead and protected.  It’s easy to manipulate them, and that’s the demonic path. True men respect women, they in turn demand their attention. A righteous life has cause and effect. How you treat women is always part of the equation. –Peter B, X

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When Virginia Giuffre publicly accused well-known millionaire Jeffrey Epstein of sexually assaulting and trafficking her as a teenager, she was thrown into a world of lawsuits, depositions, and public scrutiny. Her first suit, filed in May 2009 with Giuffre listed under the pseudonym of Jane Doe 102, accused Epstein and his longtime collaborator and friend Ghislaine Maxwell of grooming and trafficking Giuffre when she was 16 years old — “sexually assaulting, battering, exploiting, and abusing” Giuffre for several years. Since Epstein’s public image went from a rich socialite to an alleged sex trafficker, Giuffre’s painful memories and recollections of her time with Epstein have become international news.  As is common for victims of sexual abuse and trafficking, Giuffre struggled with mental health issues for most of her adult life — many of which were exacerbated by the intense public scrutiny regarding her time with Epstein. On April 25, 2025, Giuffre’s family announced that the ...

“Ingrassia then informed her that she would be staying with him, according to five administration officials familiar with the episode. Eventually the woman discovered that Ingrassia had arranged ahead of time to have her hotel room canceled so she would have to stay with him, three of those officials said...” http://archive.today/2025.10.15-022108/https://www.politico.com/news/2025/10/09/ingrassia-trump-harassment-dhs-00596545

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Narcissists won’t just be abusive. They’ll do tiny, petty things that technically aren’t abuse but they’re designed to get under your skin. They know exactly what they’re doing. And they know you can’t say anything because what they’re doing isn’t technically abuse. It’s not “bad enough” to call out. It’s not illegal. It’s not obvious. So if you speak up, you risk looking irrational, dramatic, or “overly sensitive.” “Wow, calm down — it’s not a big deal.” “You’re overreacting.” “I didn’t even do anything.” But they know exactly what they’re doing.  It’s psychological warfare.  These little “nothings” add up — and what they’re really saying is: “I’m in control. I live in your head. You can’t prove it.” And the truth is… anyone who behaves like this is deeply emotionally depraved. That’s a soul so disconnected, it has to feed off someone else’s peace just to feel alive. They’re trying to aggravate you…So laugh it off. Find their desperation to affect you amusing instead.  A...

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It’s a devastating mindfuck the scapegoat experiences. They are abused and tormented for years behind the scenes. They show more tolerance than anyone should ever have to show. They swallow their pride and they bite their tongues… for years. They take the pain quietly… for years. But no one sees that but the abusers. And then finally when their humanity has been trampled on more than any human being could possibly handle, they finally have no tolerance left and possibly no sanity left, and they react aggressively, sometimes even violently to protect what’s left of their humanity. Witnesses only see this reaction and condemn the scapegoat as a violent aggressive person. The scapegoat is shunned and shamed while the abusers continue on in society as if they are the innocent victims. This pain on top of the lifetime of abuse they have already experienced, is another level of psychological torture most people won’t understand, and no one should have to experience this. The fact that the ab...

The narcissist will make accusations to slander your character and they want you to defend yourself. Keeping you on the defensive keeps the ball in their court. They’re keeping you busy. But if you don’t defend yourself they portray your silence as an admission of guilt. So what? It doesn’t prove anything and it is not an admission of guilt. Remember, narcissists play the short game of superficial appearances, lies and manipulation; our best tactic is to play the long game where truth naturally prevails. When you might defend yourself: Defending yourself can make sense if there’s a factual or legal consequence—for example, a work accusation, legal matter, or serious public defamation. In these cases, it’s done strategically, with evidence, and often without emotional engagement. Everyday petty attacks from a narcissist? Best strategy is usually silence, boundaries, and disengagement. Bottom line: Not defending yourself emotionally or reactively is almost always better. Defend only when...

“Malignant narcissists think they can abuse you terribly one day, and then act like nothing happened the next and you’re supposed to go along with this. Sometimes called “narcissistic reset” or “reset button abuse.” It’s a common manipulation tactic used by malignant narcissists where they expect you to act as if their abuse never happened, as if they can press a reset button and erase the past. If you refuse to comply and hold them accountable, they label you as the problem—accusing you of being bitter, unforgiving, or “stuck in the past.” This is a form of gaslighting and emotional invalidation, designed to make you question your own reality and force you into submission. It’s also connected to compartmentalization, where they separate their abusive behavior from their self-image, refusing to acknowledge any wrongdoing. In their mind, they decide when things are over, and your feelings don’t matter.” – Ryan Daigler , Exposing Narcissistic Abuse

Elon Musk’s AI video generator has been deliberately programmed to produce sexually explicit images of women, it is alleged. Grok Imagine, an online tool capable of instantly rendering images and videos based on text prompts, was launched earlier this week by Mr Musk, the tech mogul and former special adviser to Donald Trump, the US president. The tool’s “spicy” feature allows users to create soft-core pornographic videos as part of a £22 monthly subscription to SuperGrok, an online AI assistant. Those who have tested the feature claim that when asked to produce “spicy” videos of men, Grok Imagine shows them topless but covered below the waist. However, when the same request was made for women, they were shown with naked breasts or even fully undressed. http://archive.today/2025.08.09-114814/https://www.telegraph.co.uk/world-news/2025/08/09/elon-musk-ai-grok-imagine-explicit-videos-taylor-swift/

Sir Keir Starmer has warned boys are getting sucked into a world of “toxic masculinity” online as he announced an expansion of youth services aimed at cutting screen time for children. The Prime Minister said the £88 million funding package for extracurricular activities like music lessons and climbing walls would help offer young people an alternative to engaging with “damaging” content on social media. He criticised Nigel Farage for previously describing misogynist influencer Andrew Tate as “an important voice” for young men, saying the Reform UK leader was on the “wrong side of where most families are”. http://archive.today/2025.08.07-123438/https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/keir-starmer-andrew-tate-nigel-farage-prime-minister-government-b2803121.html

Good morning. Time to pour gasoline on what’s left of my reputation and strike the match, all for a cause I should’ve committed to long ago: the truth. This Is Not Real Life is a memoir about the total, unfiltered chaos behind the scenes of my time in media. From an evangelical upbringing and a steady diet of Fox News, to going viral and playing my first part in media disinformation, to meeting with terrorists, neo-Nazis, intelligence agents, and political crime rings. There's coke binges, MDMA diplomacy with enemies, a nuclear-grade marriage meltdown, and a trail of scandals across five continents. I was arrested in Turkey and Morocco, got banned from the UK, and maybe(?) violated international sanctions. Finally, a psychotic break, addiction, and the dark art of conspiracy. If you’re someone I met along the way and you’re thinking, “Wait, am I in this book?” Relax. Unless you committed a crime or did something genuinely insane, you’re probably fine. If anything, I’m the one under...

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“Statistically a woman is most likely to be killed or seriously injured by a past or present intimate partner or someone she trusted or loved.” –Steve Ryan, Retired Homicide & Sex Crimes Detective Sergeant

https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=mtulGRyvPkQ —  Experience our music as it was intended—enhanced with bass boosting and surround sound for the ultimate auditory pleasure. Please note that sound quality may vary based on your device settings. We recommend adjusting your audio settings for optimal enjoyment of our tracks. — Lyrics: You sold me a dream wrapped in ‘loverboy’ lies A sweet illusion beneath your dark disguise You hunted my heart with words so sweet But your love was a trap A bitter deceit What you did in the dark It’ll haunt your nights The shadows of me will dim your lights You made me an object Used and thrown But my ghost lives in your mind You’ll reap what you've sown You lured me in with your honeyed tone Made me believe I wasn’t alone You said to meet under your big city's lights Only to shatter me with your ‘loverboy’ guise What you did in the dark It’ll haunt your nights The shadows of me will dim your lights You made me an object Used and thrown But my ghost...

Kidnapped by gangs as children, sold by their own family and tricked by boyfriends and pimps, this is life inside the Bangladeshi village entirely dedicated to prostitution. Every day, more than 1,500 women and girls are forced to serve the wishes of more than 3,000 men a day for as little as £2 in the village of Daulatdia, home to one of the world's largest brothels. Bangladesh is one of the few countries that tolerates prostitution and girls are being forced into following their mothers into the exploitative industry from as young as 14 - the country's age of consent. Trapped until they have repaid their debt, girls trafficked into Daulatdia - made up of a series of shacks spread over a maze of alleyways - face a lifetime of physical and mental suffering that no child should be subjected to.  'We just want to play, we like playing. I wish someone could arrange another place for us, somewhere outside where we can live,' one innocent girl who has been swept up by Daulat...

Victims of rape and serious sexual assault who face their cases being dropped by the Crown Prosecution Service will be given the right to request a review under a government pilot. The six-month scheme, which will launch on Friday in the West Midlands, will give victims the right to ask for their case to be reviewed by a different prosecutor if the CPS indicates it intends to offer no evidence. The reform is backed by the attorney general and solicitor general and forms part of the government’s pledge to halve violence against women and girls. Campaigners have long called for the change. Criminal cases can be stopped at any point if a prosecutor decides there is no longer a realistic prospect of conviction, but this reform strengthens the right of victims to challenge the decision. Though a right to review already exists, it cannot be exercised when the case has been stopped in court. Under the terms of the pilot, for the first time victims of rape or serious sexual abuse will be offer...

One in three Australian men has reported committing domestic violence, world-first research has found – and the same research has identified new ways to tackle it. The Australian Institute of Family Studies found fostering affectionate relationships between sons and fathers (or father figures) was associated with reducing the risk of intimate partner violence (IPV) by as much as 48%. The AIFS Ten To Men Australian Longitudinal Study on Male Health is the largest of its kind. It started tracking about 16,000 boys and men in 2013-14, and in 2023-24 added another 10,000 men to the database. The definition of intimate partner violence includes emotional as well as physical abuse. Having good social supports is another protective factor, according to the AIFS report based on the study’s robust data up to 2022. Men who reported high levels of social support all the time in 2013-14 were 26% less likely to report committing IPV by 2022. Mental health issues such as depression can increase the ...

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This is the story of my friend Dolly She told it to me only one day after we met. I’ll never forget that soft and warm afternoon in June, with an orange sun hiding behind a tall building on Hollywood Boulevard, and my face wet with the stain of silent tears. ‘A lot of first things happened that year,’ Dolly said with a blank look in her eye, while soothing an imaginary painful spot underneath her ear. ‘It was my first time doing cocaine, my first time having sex — although not by choice — the first time getting pregnant, and the first time getting trafficked. It was a hell of a year!’ One hot summer day, as she was enjoying a date with her boyfriend on the beach in Atlantic City, where she was living at the time, Dolly’s life was cut short. He raped her, kidnapped her, and sold her into prostitution. At the time, Dolly was 15 years old and a virgin. Nobody went looking for her: she came from a broken home; her mother was absent and cold, and her father had made a new family with a much...

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