The Lies My ‘Loverboy’ Told Me™

1. Triangulation: they play off other people against you. This could be in a work setting, a romantic context, with your children etc. It may be covert or overt. It may destabilise others’ relationships with you, or have you feel unsafe or unconfident. It may only be subtle but pay attention if you see it. 2. Disinterest in your inner world: they are not keen to gain a deep understanding of and respect what has you feel valued and what you value most.  3. No respect for your boundaries: if you set a boundary, they will walk over it overtly or they will covertly introduce issues so the boundary is compromised.  4. Limited or no understanding/acknowledgement of your feelings: your emotional world is not really included in the relationship. 5. Any issue in the relationship is your fault: they will even lie and rewrite history to ensure they can steadfastly lay any relationship problems at your feet. 6. They may be passive aggressive - as someone once said you can ‘sense the seet...

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I don’t know who needs to hear this tonight, but abusing women, manipulating them, and making them grovel and uncomfortable isn’t based. That’s a degenerates lifestyle. Whose daughter are you abusing? They are the weaker species, one designed by God to trust and be lead and protected.  It’s easy to manipulate them, and that’s the demonic path. True men respect women, they in turn demand their attention. A righteous life has cause and effect. How you treat women is always part of the equation. –Peter B, X

http://archive.today/2025.12.10-201440/https://www.nytimes.com/2025/12/10/us/andrew-tate-barron-trump-romania.html

http://archive.today/2025.12.06-072426/https://spookyconnections.com/2025/12/05/tategate-how-a-human-trafficking-suspect-was-protected-by-trumps-whitehouse/

http://archive.today/2025.11.22-155727/https://time.com/7336204/meta-lawsuit-files-child-safety/

When Virginia Giuffre publicly accused well-known millionaire Jeffrey Epstein of sexually assaulting and trafficking her as a teenager, she was thrown into a world of lawsuits, depositions, and public scrutiny. Her first suit, filed in May 2009 with Giuffre listed under the pseudonym of Jane Doe 102, accused Epstein and his longtime collaborator and friend Ghislaine Maxwell of grooming and trafficking Giuffre when she was 16 years old — “sexually assaulting, battering, exploiting, and abusing” Giuffre for several years. Since Epstein’s public image went from a rich socialite to an alleged sex trafficker, Giuffre’s painful memories and recollections of her time with Epstein have become international news.  As is common for victims of sexual abuse and trafficking, Giuffre struggled with mental health issues for most of her adult life — many of which were exacerbated by the intense public scrutiny regarding her time with Epstein. On April 25, 2025, Giuffre’s family announced that the ...

“Ingrassia then informed her that she would be staying with him, according to five administration officials familiar with the episode. Eventually the woman discovered that Ingrassia had arranged ahead of time to have her hotel room canceled so she would have to stay with him, three of those officials said...” http://archive.today/2025.10.15-022108/https://www.politico.com/news/2025/10/09/ingrassia-trump-harassment-dhs-00596545

http://archive.today/2025.09.24-130254/https://www.theguardian.com/news/2025/sep/24/women-allegedly-abused-by-andrew-tate-decry-misleading-spectator-article

Narcissists won’t just be abusive. They’ll do tiny, petty things that technically aren’t abuse but they’re designed to get under your skin. They know exactly what they’re doing. And they know you can’t say anything because what they’re doing isn’t technically abuse. It’s not “bad enough” to call out. It’s not illegal. It’s not obvious. So if you speak up, you risk looking irrational, dramatic, or “overly sensitive.” “Wow, calm down — it’s not a big deal.” “You’re overreacting.” “I didn’t even do anything.” But they know exactly what they’re doing.  It’s psychological warfare.  These little “nothings” add up — and what they’re really saying is: “I’m in control. I live in your head. You can’t prove it.” And the truth is… anyone who behaves like this is deeply emotionally depraved. That’s a soul so disconnected, it has to feed off someone else’s peace just to feel alive. They’re trying to aggravate you…So laugh it off. Find their desperation to affect you amusing instead.  A...

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http://archive.today/2025.10.14-165556/https://sanctuaryforfamilies.org/darvo-perfect-victim/

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Live: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/10926771.2023.2186302 Archive: http://archive.today/2025.02.15-095548/https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/10926771.2023.2186302

http://archive.today/2025.12.09-120759/https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9087551/

http://archive.today/2025.09.27-171157/https://fightthenewdrug.org/exploitation-survivors-boldly-testified-against-pornhub-to-canada-parliament/

https://www.justice.gov/usao-edla/pr/louisiana-man-sentenced-violating-civil-rights-woman-disabilities

http://archive.today/2017.02.21-030511/http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/milo-yiannopoulos-latest-news-paedophilia-breitbart-video-child-abuse-right-wing-sexual-relationship-a7589656.html

http://archive.today/2025.04.15-203539/https://www.nytimes.com/2001/05/20/magazine/naked-capitalists.html